{"id":13177,"date":"2020-09-15T22:36:45","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T20:36:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/egophobia.ro\/?p=13177"},"modified":"2020-09-16T08:48:25","modified_gmt":"2020-09-16T06:48:25","slug":"40","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/?p=13177","title":{"rendered":"40+"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: green;\">(egoZaur)<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">de Sorin-Mihai Grad<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Un mesaj de dincolo de \u0219an\u021bul sau gardul pe care redactorul-\u0219ef al EgoPHobia <a href=\"http:\/\/egophobia.ro\/?p=13138\">crede<\/a> c\u0103-l va s\u0103ri \u00een cur\u00e2nd: nu exist\u0103 nici un \u0219an\u021b, nici un gard. Sari c\u00e2t po\u021bi de sus \u0219i aterizezi \u00een acela\u0219i loc. Chiar dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi petreci toat\u0103 ziua \u00een care \u00eempline\u0219ti patruzeci de ani treaz, ar trebui s\u0103 ai mare noroc ca s\u0103 ai parte de vreo revela\u021bie. Jum\u0103tatea vie\u021bii e o glum\u0103 care se mi\u0219c\u0103 \u00een toate direc\u021biile \u0219i chiar \u0219i a\u0219a nu are nici un sens, iar cursul corect al vie\u021bii ni se reveleaz\u0103 doar retrospectiv (ca s\u0103 nu scriu postum).<!--more--><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">P\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi \u00eempung\u0103 cine sau ce s-o fi ocup\u00e2nd cu a\u0219a ceva al patruzecilea spin \u00een trandafirul vie\u021bii tale ar fi trebuit s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi c\u00e2t\u0103 valoare au iluziile \u0219i visele tale, \u0219i dac\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 \u00eenlocuie\u0219ti optimismul nefondat cu un realism cu nuan\u021be cinice. Ar trebui s\u0103 \u0219tii ce s\u0103 prioritizezi \u0219i s\u0103 nu te surprinzi tr\u0103g\u00e2nd tare s\u0103 finalizezi ceva \u00een minutele de dinaintea termenului limit\u0103. Ar trebui s\u0103 \u0219tii dac\u0103 visele pe care \u021bi le-ai \u00eendeplinit \u0219i mai ales cele care \u00eenc\u0103 nu s-au l\u0103sat apucate sunt chiar ale tale sau n-ai \u0219tiut s\u0103 te scuturi de ele c\u00e2nd le-au suflat al\u021bii \u00eenspre tine.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Bolile \u0219i problemele de care pomenesc unii pot veni oric\u00e2nd, nu a\u0219teapt\u0103 patru decenii s\u0103 te pocneasc\u0103. Idem g\u00e2ndurile despre propria-\u021bi dispari\u021bie. La fel e \u0219i cu \u00een\u021belepciunea, maturitatea \u0219i alte basme cu care cei din balta 40+ \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i justifice incoeren\u021bele. Po\u021bi \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 a-\u021bi schimba prefixul \u00een 4 (cine o fi inventat t\u00e2mpenia asta merit\u0103 statui \u0219i pe Lun\u0103, cl\u0103dite sisific de c\u0103tre cei care au preluat-o \u0219i r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit-o) s\u0103 nu mai accep\u021bi dorin\u021bele altora care nu corespund alor tale. \u0218i po\u021bi oric\u00e2nd scrie orice vrei, tot ce vrei. Sau po\u021bi \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba lucruri pe care s\u0103 le ui\u021bi c\u00e2ndva. Ori doar devora produsele altora.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">40 nu e un prag, e o conven\u021bie legat\u0103 de num\u0103rul de degete cu care e dotat\u0103 specia noastr\u0103. Dac\u0103 aveam \u0219ase \u0219i num\u0103ram \u00een baza 12, patruzeci nu era cu nimic mai presus dec\u00e2t treizeci \u0219i \u0219apte sau patruzeci \u0219i doi. Nu te a\u0219teapt\u0103 nimic special aici, vei fi doar tu, acela\u0219i tu, pe care \u00eel po\u021bi \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi oric\u00e2nd, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 folose\u0219ti pretexte.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(egoZaur) de Sorin-Mihai Grad &nbsp; Un mesaj de dincolo de \u0219an\u021bul sau gardul pe care redactorul-\u0219ef al EgoPHobia crede c\u0103-l va s\u0103ri \u00een cur\u00e2nd: nu exist\u0103 nici un \u0219an\u021b, nici un gard. Sari c\u00e2t po\u021bi de sus \u0219i aterizezi \u00een acela\u0219i loc. Chiar dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi petreci toat\u0103 ziua \u00een care \u00eempline\u0219ti patruzeci de ani treaz, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[55,1435,115],"tags":[1120,1436,1126,116],"class_list":["post-13177","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-articole","category-egophobia-64","category-egozaur","tag-articole","tag-egophobia-64","tag-egozaur","tag-sorin-mihai-grad"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/s6DakB-40","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13177","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13177"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13177\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13180,"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13177\/revisions\/13180"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13177"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13177"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13177"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}