{"id":13534,"date":"2021-05-29T08:48:10","date_gmt":"2021-05-29T06:48:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/egophobia.ro\/?p=13534"},"modified":"2021-05-28T18:49:39","modified_gmt":"2021-05-28T16:49:39","slug":"cazul-dora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/?p=13534","title":{"rendered":"Cazul Dora"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>[Paul Chetreanu-Don, <em>Convorbiri din intimitate<\/em>, Cluj: \u0218coala Ardelean\u0103, 2018]<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">de\u00a0Mihai Pavel<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0 Primul lucru pe care doresc s\u0103 \u00eel am \u00een vedere este nivelul intelectual \u0219i abilitatea autorului de a-\u0219i analiza at\u00e2t aparatul s\u0103u psihologic \u0219i tr\u0103irile, c\u00e2t \u0219i pe ale Dorei, pacienta despre care se vorbe\u0219te \u00een carte. Dup\u0103 ce am citit a doua oar\u0103 volumul <em>Convorbiri din intimitate<\/em> a lui Paul Chetreanu-Don, nu am \u0219tiut ce s\u0103 simt \u00een primele minute dup\u0103 c\u0103derea \u00een contempla\u021bie. Intensitatea sentimentelor pe care aceasta mi le-a st\u00e2rnit a fost mult mai mare dec\u00e2t la prima lectur\u0103, inocent\u0103 \u0219i comp\u0103timitoare. <!--more-->Ce ar fi trebuit s\u0103 simt? \u00cemp\u0103carea cu neajunsurile vie\u021bii, compasiune pentru cei cu dureri l\u0103untrice mai profunde dec\u00e2t ale mele, sau dorin\u021ba de a-mi c\u0103uta adev\u0103ratul sine, indiferent de consecin\u021be? Acestea au fost doar c\u00e2teva dintre g\u00e2ndurile pe care aceast\u0103 carte mi le-a injectat \u00een con\u0219tiin\u021b\u0103. Fluctua\u021bie sentimental\u0103, sexualitate, abuz, domina\u021bie, suferin\u021be adunate \u00een inim\u0103, lacrimi, suspine, episoade depresive, dragoste sau ur\u0103 sunt doar c\u00e2teva cuvinte care ar descrie aceast\u0103 carte ce nu \u00eenceteaz\u0103 s\u0103 surprind\u0103 dup\u0103 fiecare \u0219edin\u021b\u0103. Paul Chetreanu-Don poate fi numit pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 psihoterapeut \u0219i un artist des\u0103v\u00e2r\u0219it datorit\u0103 introspec\u021biei psihologice fine pe care o realizeaz\u0103 \u00eentr-un mod c\u00e2t mai obiectiv cu putin\u021b\u0103. Stilul comprehensibil, condimentat cu tentele unui lirism empatic, se \u00eembin\u0103 \u00eentr-o dualitate unic\u0103, pe care doar pu\u021bine c\u0103r\u021bi scrise ast\u0103zi o mai pot dob\u00e2ndi. Paul Chetreanu-Don a reu\u0219it s\u0103 ne mijloceasc\u0103 contactul intim dintre pacient \u0219i psihoterapeut \u00eentr-o manier\u0103 situat\u0103 pe treapta sublimului. De multe ori, pe parcursul lecturii, m-am oprit recunosc\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 fie pe mine \u00eentre paginile c\u0103r\u021bii, fie prieteni sau chiar familia. Autorul ne pune fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 cu ceea ce \u0219tim c\u0103 exist\u0103, cu \u00eentunericul min\u021bii umane, pe care dintr-un motiv sau altul ajungem s\u0103 \u00eel ignor\u0103m, fiind prea neputincio\u0219i s\u0103 ne confrunt\u0103m temerile. \u00cen multitudinea \u0219edin\u021belor povestite se abordeaz\u0103 o serie de teme cu o deosebit\u0103 importan\u021b\u0103 pentru noi \u00een\u0219ine. Pot s\u0103 afirm faptul c\u0103 \u00eentre paginile c\u0103r\u021bii, \u00een nelini\u0219tile Dorei, oricine sufer\u0103 de molima g\u00e2ndurilor negre, poate g\u0103si \u00eemp\u0103carea c\u0103utat\u0103 \u00een efervescen\u021ba spiritual\u0103 a Dorei. Trebuie adesea s\u0103 ne uit\u0103m la experien\u021bele altora pentru a ne \u00een\u021belege pe noi \u00een\u0219ine. Fa\u021b\u0103 de alte c\u0103r\u021bi patetice, care doar mimeaz\u0103 analiza sentimental\u0103 \u0219i psihologic\u0103 a pacientului, cartea de fa\u021b\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i are originile \u00een experien\u021ba personal\u0103 a autorului, care dore\u0219te s\u0103 desc\u00e2lceasc\u0103 dup\u0103 fiecare \u0219edin\u021b\u0103 o minte obosit\u0103, fie pe a, s\u0103 fie pe a Dorei. Sinceritatea autorului este prezent\u0103 \u00een absolut fiecare pagin\u0103, fapt care face textul verosimil \u0219i care nuan\u021beaz\u0103 \u00eentr-o manier\u0103 nou\u0103 analiza nelini\u0219tilor \u0219i angoasei. Cazul Dorei poate fi folosit drept un model de analiz\u0103 pentru to\u021bi cei care sufer\u0103 dintr-un motiv sau altul. Prin traumele Dorei, Chetreanu-Don ne pune fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 cu ceea ce oricine experimenteaz\u0103 pe parcursul vie\u021bii, st\u0103ri \u0219i momente pe care vrem s\u0103 le uit\u0103m, dar despre care doar pu\u021bini au \u00eentr-adev\u0103r curajul s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 nici o re\u021binere.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[Paul Chetreanu-Don, Convorbiri din intimitate, Cluj: \u0218coala Ardelean\u0103, 2018] de\u00a0Mihai Pavel \u00a0\u00a0 Primul lucru pe care doresc s\u0103 \u00eel am \u00een vedere este nivelul intelectual \u0219i abilitatea autorului de a-\u0219i analiza at\u00e2t aparatul s\u0103u psihologic \u0219i tr\u0103irile, c\u00e2t \u0219i pe ale Dorei, pacienta despre care se vorbe\u0219te \u00een carte. 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