{"id":13909,"date":"2021-11-27T00:05:57","date_gmt":"2021-11-26T22:05:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/egophobia.ro\/?p=13909"},"modified":"2021-12-16T12:47:48","modified_gmt":"2021-12-16T10:47:48","slug":"beneficiile-si-riscurile-lumilor-virtuale-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/?p=13909","title":{"rendered":"Elogiu \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nirii"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: green;\">(pa\u0219i m\u0103run\u021bi)<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">de Gelu Teamp\u0103u<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Din expresia \u201ecine nu are b\u0103tr\u00e2ni, s\u0103-\u015fi cumpere\u201d, cineva neobi\u015fnuit cu limbajul figurativ poate \u00een\u0163elege c\u0103 b\u0103tr\u00e2nii sunt ieftini. Aceasta, bine\u00een\u0163eles, deoarece b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163ea este considerat\u0103 o lacun\u0103, dac\u0103 nu chiar, a\u015fa cum observ\u0103m mai nou, o vin\u0103 impardonabil\u0103, o tar\u0103 odioas\u0103. Lucrurile vechi \u00ee\u015fi pierd din str\u0103lucire \u015fi, de regul\u0103, din valoare (cu excep\u0163ii notabile, printre care, poate nu \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor, vinul). Dac\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 nu demult, moartea constituia un tabu puternic, ast\u0103zi ea a devenit subiect de umor facil, de analize atente sau chiar obiect de schimb pe scena de \u015fah geopolitic\u0103. Locul ei a fost luat \u00eens\u0103 de c\u0103tre b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163e, care dintr-un fapt normal, chiar acceptat cu smerenie, a devenit inamicul public num\u0103rul unu. Semnele \u00eenaint\u0103rii \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103, precum calvi\u0163ia, ridurile, cearc\u0103nele, au devenit mon\u015ftri care disemineaz\u0103 teroare existen\u0163ial\u0103. Lupta absurd\u0103 \u00eempotriva acestor jaloane ale transform\u0103rii naturale implic\u0103 adesea totalitatea resurselor unei persoane, de la timp \u015fi bani p\u00e2n\u0103 la emo\u0163ii \u015fi rela\u0163ii sociale. Opera\u0163ii, lo\u0163iuni, pastile, peruci, alifii, \u00eentregul arsenal disponibil este pus \u00een func\u0163iune pentru a da iluzia \u00eencremenirii \u00een timp. Bine\u00een\u0163eles c\u0103 rezultatele nu pot fi dec\u00e2t aberante. De ce \u00eens\u0103 toate acestea? De ce spaima de \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nire \u00eei \u00eempinge pe mul\u0163i \u00een depresie sau \u00een isterie?<!--more--><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nu este vorba doar de frica expierii. Aproape toate persoanele pe care le cunosc mi-au spus c\u0103 accept\u0103 moartea, dar nu b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163ea, neputin\u0163a, ur\u00e2\u0163enia. Problema \u00eens\u0103 nu prive\u015fte strict biologia, ci mai degrab\u0103 psihologia. Este vorba, printre altele, de incapacitatea de a distinge \u015fi de a pre\u0163ui frumuse\u0163ea \u015fi distinc\u0163ia senectu\u0163ii. Exist\u0103, categoric, anumite avantaje ale b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163ii. Presupusa \u00een\u0163elepciune, pe care majoritatea societ\u0103\u0163ilor care au precedat modernitatea o recuno\u015fteau, era str\u00e2ns conectat\u0103 cu maturitatea. Aristotel afirma c\u0103 filosofia \u00eencepe dup\u0103 40 de ani, iar senatul roman st\u0103 chez\u0103\u015fie pentru importan\u0163a acordat\u0103 celor experimenta\u0163i. Exemplele de oameni v\u00e2rstnici care au s\u0103v\u00e2r\u015fit fapte grandioase abund\u0103, de la p\u0103rintele biblic Avraam, la multitudinea de suverani \u015fi lideri care \u015fi-au pus amprenta asupra istoriei. Exist\u0103 chiar exemple de personalit\u0103\u0163i care s-au afirmat public doar la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u00eenaintat\u0103, sau cel pu\u0163in matur\u0103. Nu numai at\u00e2t, dar chiar \u015fi \u00een industria cinematografic\u0103, cea at\u00e2t de preten\u0163ioas\u0103 \u00een privin\u0163a aspectului fizic \u015fi ne\u00eendur\u0103toare cu cele mai mici abateri de la norm\u0103, avem exemple de actori care au devenit cu adev\u0103rat ei \u00een\u015fi\u015fi doar dup\u0103 ce trecerea timpului le-a oferit aspectul iconic (Anthony Quinn sau Jack Nicholson). S\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim care sunt ast\u0103zi b\u0103rba\u0163ii prezenta\u0163i drept modele de masculinitate, adora\u0163i de c\u0103tre genera\u0163ii succesive de femei: Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, George Clooney, Johnny Depp, to\u0163i trecu\u0163i de 50 de ani. Nu este surprinz\u0103tor, dac\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim, de pild\u0103, la Clark Gable, la Gregory Peck sau la Humphrey Bogart. Ca s\u0103 nu mai vorbim de elegan\u0163a cu care \u00eenfrunt\u0103 asaltul timpului doamne ca Michelle Pfeiffer, Jane Fonda sau miracolul care se nume\u015fte Sophia Loren. Aceste exemple nu fac dec\u00e2t s\u0103 confirme fascina\u0163ia pe care o exercit\u0103 b\u0103rbatul sau femeia ajun\u015fi la maturitate, cei care, de\u015fi \u015fi-au pierdut pu\u0163in din euforia \u015fi din vigoarea tinere\u0163ii, au c\u00e2\u015ftigat mult mai mult prin rafinament, siguran\u0163\u0103 de sine, luciditate \u015fi \u00een\u0163elepciune.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Exist\u0103 un mod de a \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ni cu demnitate \u015fi distinc\u0163ie. Chelia, \u00een loc de motiv de frustrare, poate deveni o cupol\u0103 sub care s\u0103l\u0103\u015fluiesc cele mai \u00eendr\u0103zne\u0163e \u015fi mai nobile g\u00e2nduri \u015fi proiecte. Ridurile cele at\u00e2t de temute pot oferi expresie pe un chip care, injectat cu botox, r\u0103m\u00e2ne inert ca masca inexpresiv\u0103 a unui gisant. Cearc\u0103nele pot fi un indiciu al ochilor care cerceteaz\u0103 realitatea \u00een profunzime. Ce s\u0103 mai spunem de p\u0103rul alb care, pe cei care \u015ftiu s\u0103 \u015fi-l asume, \u00eei proiecteaz\u0103 \u00een sfere de legend\u0103.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Teama e \u00eens\u0103 de \u00een\u0163eles. De prea multe ori, \u00een paradigma actual\u0103 a frumuse\u0163ii standardizate \u015fi a vigorii obligatorii, cei trecu\u0163i de un prag temporal, vag \u015fi oscilant, sunt exclu\u015fi din sferele publice. Li se neag\u0103 accesul la anumite func\u0163ii, slujbe, sau chiar activit\u0103\u0163i, pe criteriul arbitrar c\u0103 trebuie f\u0103cut loc pentru cei tineri, f\u0103r\u0103 niciun fel de aluzie la competen\u0163e sau capacit\u0103\u0163i. Ba chiar dragostea survenit\u0103 la b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163e este considerat\u0103 revolt\u0103toare, imoral\u0103, dac\u0103 nu chiar ilegal\u0103, de parc\u0103 cineva a conceput c\u00e2ndva o constitu\u0163ie a iubirii. Se ignor\u0103 exemplele ilustre de b\u0103tr\u00e2ni \u00eendr\u0103gosti\u0163i, ca Hugo, Goethe sau Schopenhauer \u015fi operele magistrale survenite din acest sentiment pe care timpul nu-l poate \u015ftirbi.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Presupu\u015fii senili moroc\u0103no\u015fi nu sunt neap\u0103rat rezultatul v\u00e2rstei, ci al caracterului, \u015fi se poate presupune c\u0103 \u015fi \u00een tinere\u0163e au fost ni\u015fte persoane departe de idealul bonomiei. B\u0103tr\u00e2nii care pot fi cump\u0103ra\u0163i nu merit\u0103 banii, deoarece b\u0103tr\u00e2nii solari, \u00een\u0163elep\u0163i, liberi, valoreaz\u0103 greutatea lor \u00een pulbere de stele. Ce trebuie s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple ca s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegem c\u0103 b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163ea nu este o pedeaps\u0103, ci o oportunitate, doar cei noroco\u015fi av\u00e2nd ocazia s\u0103 experimenteze aceast\u0103 stare?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(pa\u0219i m\u0103run\u021bi) de Gelu Teamp\u0103u \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Din expresia \u201ecine nu are b\u0103tr\u00e2ni, s\u0103-\u015fi cumpere\u201d, cineva neobi\u015fnuit cu limbajul figurativ poate \u00een\u0163elege c\u0103 b\u0103tr\u00e2nii sunt ieftini. Aceasta, bine\u00een\u0163eles, deoarece b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163ea este considerat\u0103 o lacun\u0103, dac\u0103 nu chiar, a\u015fa cum observ\u0103m mai nou, o vin\u0103 impardonabil\u0103, o tar\u0103 odioas\u0103. Lucrurile vechi \u00ee\u015fi pierd din str\u0103lucire \u015fi, de [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[55,1516,1372],"tags":[1120,1517,1089,1373],"class_list":["post-13909","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-articole","category-egophobia-69","category-pasi-marunti","tag-articole","tag-egophobia-69-70","tag-gelu-teampau","tag-pasi-marunti"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6DakB-3Cl","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13909","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13909"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13909\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13989,"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13909\/revisions\/13989"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13909"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13909"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13909"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}