{"id":15083,"date":"2023-12-15T12:12:18","date_gmt":"2023-12-15T10:12:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/?p=15083"},"modified":"2024-01-01T12:13:46","modified_gmt":"2024-01-01T10:13:46","slug":"promisiuni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/?p=15083","title":{"rendered":"Promisiuni"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: green;\">(egoZaur)<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">de Sorin-Mihai Grad<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00cenchei \u00een cur\u00e2nd un an \u00een care am reu\u0219it s\u0103 ratez mai multe termene dec\u00e2t p\u00e2n\u0103 acum, oric\u00e2t m-am str\u0103duit s\u0103 nu o fac. Cauza principal\u0103 e o tendin\u021b\u0103 a mea de care am mai povestit <a href=\"https:\/\/egophobia.ro\/?p=14823\">aici<\/a>. Con\u0219tient de ea, m-am str\u0103duit s\u0103 nu folosesc cuvinte ca \u201epromit\u201d c\u00e2nd am anun\u021bat c\u0103 a\u0219 face ceva p\u00e2n\u0103 la o anumit\u0103 dat\u0103, a\u0219a c\u0103, tehnic vorbind, n-ar trebui s\u0103 m\u0103 simt chiar at\u00e2t de vinovat c\u00e2t ar fi cazul dac\u0103 mi-a\u0219 \u00eenc\u0103lca promisiunile. Doar c\u0103 nu e vorba doar de ce-am spus altora c\u0103 voi face.<!--more--><br \/>\nCele mai multe asemenea rat\u0103ri sunt legate de mine. Mi-am propus s\u0103 fac ceva p\u00e2n\u0103 la ora sau data cutare \u0219i nu mi-a ie\u0219it. S-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u0219i s\u0103 nu fie neap\u0103rat din vina mea, \u00eens\u0103 deseori nereu\u0219ita ar fi fost evitabil\u0103 cu mai mult\u0103 organizare \u0219i aten\u021bie \u00een selec\u021bia activit\u0103\u021bilor propuse, convenite sau acceptate. M\u0103 urmeaz\u0103 \u00een clasament iubita mea \u0219i al\u021bi apropia\u021bi, pe c\u00e2nd fa\u021b\u0103 de str\u0103ini sau abia cunoscu\u021bi m\u0103 \u021bin aproape mereu de cuv\u00e2nt \u00een privin\u021ba respect\u0103rii termenelor, la fel \u0219i \u00een privin\u021ba chestiunilor oficiale. O cauz\u0103 ar fi c\u0103 apropia\u021bilor am mult mai des ocazia s\u0103 le mai \u0219i gre\u0219esc [\u00een special \u00een privin\u021ba respect\u0103rii angajamentelor] dec\u00e2t str\u0103inilor. Alta e c\u0103 ei \u00eemi iart\u0103 asemenea sc\u0103p\u0103ri, sau m\u0103car le trec cu vederea, pentru c\u0103 [sper\u0103m\/credem c\u0103] mai avem destul timp de petrecut \u00eempreun\u0103. Alta e c\u0103 \u0219i ei se comport\u0103, de obicei, asem\u0103n\u0103tor, a\u0219a c\u0103 ar fi cam complicat s\u0103-mi repro\u0219eze sc\u0103p\u0103ri prea asem\u0103n\u0103toare cu ale lor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\nRevin la mine, personajul fa\u021b\u0103 de care spun c\u0103 nu am nevoie de promisiuni sau angajamente. Cel pu\u021bin a\u0219a mi se pare, pentru c\u0103 realitatea m\u0103 contrazice flagrant. Poate c\u0103 dac\u0103 mi-a\u0219 promite ceva, a\u0219 chiar reu\u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 \u021bin de treaba respectiv\u0103. C\u0103 dac\u0103 e vorba de planuri, \u0219ti\u021bi probabil \u0219i voi cum r\u00e2de via\u021ba [realitatea,&#8230;] de ele. \u00cen concluzie, prefer s\u0103 nu trag nici una, pentru c\u0103 am impresia c\u0103 nu mi-ar pl\u0103cea ce a\u0219 emana.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(egoZaur) de Sorin-Mihai Grad \u00cenchei \u00een cur\u00e2nd un an \u00een care am reu\u0219it s\u0103 ratez mai multe termene dec\u00e2t p\u00e2n\u0103 acum, oric\u00e2t m-am str\u0103duit s\u0103 nu o fac. Cauza principal\u0103 e o tendin\u021b\u0103 a mea de care am mai povestit aici. 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