by Jonathan Ferrini<\/p>\n
\u00a0<\/strong>Every day at three o\u2019clock as the afternoon sun fought through the dusty windows and the high school down the street let out, a teenage girl would slip quietly into the boutique. She never spoke, never bought anything, just wandered to the same rack and lingered over a particular black dress.\u00a0 Minerva watched her, recognizing the weight of grief in the girl\u2019s eyes she knew too well.<\/p>\n The girl would lift the simple black satin dress off the rack and wrap it around her as if embracing somebody very special.<\/p>\n After a few moments with the dress, the girl returned it to the rack and quickly left the store without a word spoken with tears streaming down her face.<\/p>\n *<\/p>\n Minerva used her late husband\u2019s life insurance money to buy a little boutique she\u2019d admired for years. The shop sold consignment women\u2019s clothing and served as a sanctuary for Minerva to pour her sorrow into something tangible, to help women and girls find joy in clothing and accessories. The shop was a fragile haven built from a life including love, loss, and longing. Every shelf, every dress, every faded photograph tucked behind the register was a thread in the tapestry of her survival, but a lump found during a breast self-examination ignited anxiety which weighed heavily upon her.<\/p>\n Each morning, Minerva opened the shop, she was certain the lump was a \u201ccall\u201d to \u201cfold her hand\u201d as the world felt like it was determined to break her.<\/p>\n *<\/p>\n One afternoon, as the bell tinkled above the door announcing a customer, Minerva looked up from her ledger. The girl was there again; her gaze fixed on the black dress. This time, she hesitated, then approached the counter, clutching the black dress including a second, almost identical dress but in a different size.<\/p>\n \u201cCould I try these on?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cOf course, dear.<\/p>\n \u201cThe fitting rooms behind me.\u201d<\/p>\n A few minutes later, the girl emerged, the black satin dress draping heavy over her small frame. She looked at her reflection in the mirror, then turned to Minerva, uncertainty clouding her face.<\/p>\n \u201cHow does it look?\u201d<\/p>\n Minerva stepped closer.<\/p>\n \u201cMay I ask, why this one?<\/p>\n \u201cIt doesn\u2019t seem to fit you properly.<\/p>\n \u201cI believe the black cotton dress will fit you perfectly.\u201d<\/p>\n The girl hesitated, her fingers twisting the hem of the satin dress.<\/p>\n \u201cMy friend and I\u2026 we wanted to dress up and go to the prom together.<\/p>\n \u201cShe was killed in a hit-and-run accident.<\/p>\n \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about her.<\/p>\n \u201cThis black satin dress\u2026 it\u2019s the only thing she tried on here.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s all I have left of her.\u201d<\/p>\n Minerva\u2019s heart clenched. She spoke as if embracing the girl, her voice soft.<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m so sorry, sweetheart.<\/p>\n \u201cLoss is a heavy thing to carry.\u201d<\/p>\n The girl\u2019s eyes shimmered with tears.<\/p>\n \u201cI just\u2026 I wanted to feel close to her again.<\/p>\n \u201cI thought maybe, if I wore the black satin dress, I could remember what it felt like to laugh with her.\u201d<\/p>\n Minerva nodded, her own memories surfacing including her daughter\u2019s laughter, a husband\u2019s steady presence, and the ache of their absence.<\/p>\n \u201cI can only imagine the emotional trauma you\u2019re suffering, but please, allow me to share my sorrow with you, and together, we might lessen our heartache and move forward, stronger.<\/p>\n \u201cI lost both my daughter and husband.<\/p>\n \u201cOnce, my world included a loving husband, Paul.<\/p>\n \u201cHe was a hard as nails career Marine whose stern exterior hid a heart that beat for his family.<\/p>\n \u201cMarrying Paul provided me an opportunity to escape the role of only daughter to dysfunctional parents rooted inside a small town offering no prospects for self-fulfillment or escape.<\/p>\n \u201cMarriage to Paul included a patchwork of military bases and hurried goodbyes, of late-night phone calls and the constant ache of uncertainty whether he\u2019d be called to war.<\/p>\n \u201cI learned to be strong; to pack up our life at a moment\u2019s notice, but I also learned to find beauty even inside environments built for war.<\/p>\n \u201cI found work inside clothing stores wherever we landed because I was drawn to the way fabric could transform a person, and how a simple dress could make a woman feel alive, special, or different even for one occasion.<\/p>\n \u201cI apologize for tearing, but you remind me of our daughter, Emily, the light of my life.<\/p>\n \u201cEmily\u2019s spirit was wild and restless, her laughter echoing through the cramped military apartments and purring inside my heart.<\/p>\n \u201cEmily drifted away to somewhere unknown inside her mind as if being pulled by currents I couldn\u2019t fight including Paul\u2019s \u2019tough love\u2019 and frequent physical admonishments also inflicted upon me.<\/p>\n \u201cThe phone call came on a cold November morning: Emily was gone, lost to a fentanyl overdose on a bed inside a stranger\u2019s home.<\/p>\n \u201cThe grief rolled over me like a tidal wave, relentless and suffocating.<\/p>\n \u201cPaul tried to be strong, but the loss hollowed him out like no weapons he\u2019d ever known.<\/p>\n \u201cLess than a year later, his heart stopped forever, leaving me with nothing but memories and the silence of an empty house we purchased after Paul retired.<\/p>\n \u201cSome days, the memories are all that keep me going.\u201d<\/p>\n The girl looked up, surprised.<\/p>\n \u201cDoes it ever get easier?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cNot easier, but you learn to live with the pain of loss.<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019ve learned kindness helps stitch the pieces back together.\u201d<\/p>\n The girl glanced at the price tag, her face disappointed.<\/p>\n \u201cI can\u2019t afford both dresses.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYou don\u2019t have to.<\/p>\n \u201cThese are my gift for you.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cBut\u2026 why?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cBecause I know what it\u2019s like to need something to hold onto.<\/p>\n \u201cGiving is the only way I can heal.\u201d<\/p>\n Tears spilled down the girl\u2019s cheeks.<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t know what to say.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYou don\u2019t have to say anything,\u201d<\/p>\n Minerva carefully folded the dresses and placed them inside a gift box including a pink ribbon adorned with small hearts around the box.<\/p>\n \u201cPromise me you\u2019ll remember the good times and let yourself laugh again, when you\u2019re ready.\u201d<\/p>\n The girl nodded, clutching the box to her chest.<\/p>\n \u201cI will.<\/p>\n Thank you.\u201d<\/p>\n Minerva watched the girl slowly leave the shop and turn towards her before exiting. She mouthed the words,<\/p>\n \u201cI love you.\u201d<\/p>\n The girl left and the slight spring in her step signaled to Minerva signs of hope flickering in the ashes of her sorrow, and although Minerva didn\u2019t get her name, she instinctively knew it was a brief encounter with her beloved Emily which gave her the final contact she desperately needed.<\/p>\n *<\/p>\n The doctor diagnosed Minerva with metastatic breast cancer. Minerva remembered staring at the ceiling in the doctor\u2019s office, feeling as if her body was telling her the fight against grief was soon to be completed and she could join Emily and Paul in the afterlife.<\/p>\n The hardest blow came when the doctor informed her,<\/p>\n \u201cThe treatments will include a double mastectomy surgery, chemo, and radiation.<\/p>\n \u201cIf you want a chance of beating the cancer, it will require your complete devotion to rest and recovery.<\/p>\n \u201cYou won\u2019t be able to keep up with the demands of operating the business.\u201d<\/p>\n *<\/p>\n The words echoed in her mind as she stared at the racks of dresses, the sunlight struggling to pour through the fabrics mirroring the tears behind the black veil Minerva wore at two funerals and today, a struggle for her own life. Closing the shop felt like losing another piece of herself.<\/p>\n She lingered by the window, watching the sun dip below the horizon. She thought of her daughter, husband, all the moments lost, and the memories that remained. In giving the girl those two black dresses, Minerva was reminded that even in the depths of loss, kindness could stitch together the torn fabric of a broken heart. She had hoped to hear the familiar chime above the door open one final time and reveal the lovely girl. Minerva knew she was off chasing her own life which would reveal twists and turns. Minerva prayed the girl would be guided by kindness and knowing loss and misery is universal.<\/p>\n Recalling the happiness in the girl\u2019s face carrying both dresses helped Minerva find the resolve to survive. She turned the sign on the door to \u201cClosed,\u201d knowing she would never open it again. But as Minerva locked up, she felt, for the first time in a long while, that she was not alone and would confront her illness head on with a newfound resolve to live.<\/p>\n ~<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" by Jonathan Ferrini \u00a0Every day at three o\u2019clock as the afternoon sun fought through the dusty windows and the high school down the street let out, a teenage girl would slip quietly into the boutique. 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